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A kiss in the cinema is one of the first steps to a relationship. The hardest part of this process is to have the courage and dare to invite the girl to the movies. If the girl agreed to go to the cinema with you, start developing tactics of action. Believe me, everyone likes to kiss, and the chance that the girl will not mind your kiss is quite high. The best advice for this situation is just to relax. If the girl agreed to go to the cinema with you, most likely, she herself is looking forward to when you kiss her!
How to kiss a girl for the first time
Even in ancient Rome, wise people knew that one of the most important things in the life of every person is experience. This was unanimously declared not only by all prominent philosophers and thinkers, but also by the rulers of large states. Now practically nothing has changed and many people are still confident that experience is one of the most important things. And this is not surprising, because even with certain knowledge, but without experience, it can be very difficult for a person to succeed in a particular business. This applies to absolutely every area of life, including love relationships.
The first relationship for every young person is always something exciting, touching, beautiful, sweet and fragile. It is because of the lack of experience that a guy can do a lot of things, which can lead to funny, funny, ridiculous and awkward situations. Young people quite often do not know how to behave in a particular situation. So, for example, many of them quite often ask themselves how to kiss a girl for the first time.
Most guys want to kiss a girl right on the first date, in order to immediately indicate all their intentions. However, this is not necessary, as an attempt to kiss on a first date can turn into a curious situation if the girl refuses. Well, and most likely it will happen, because most girls of different ages have an unwritten rule that prohibits them from kissing at the first meeting. This is especially true for those girls who previously did not kiss at all. Of course, not every one of them will wait for a third date to kiss the boy with whom she walks. Everything can happen at the second meeting. But even if there is no suitable opportunity on the third date, it’s better to postpone the first kiss next time. Indeed, in this matter not timing is important, but the relevance of the moment.
If you have serious intentions for a girl, then do not rush things too much so as not to do stupid things and unnecessary things. The fact is that only a few perfect mistakes can ruin only the nascent relationship. And if you do not want this, then there is no need to rush.
Many guys, left alone with the girl, immediately climb to kiss her. They do this for a variety of reasons, including because of a desire to bring relations to a new level as quickly as possible. In addition, some of them are very nervous before the first kiss, so they try to solve this issue as quickly as possible. But with this approach to the first kiss, nothing good will come of it. Well, much depends on how it goes.
You should not rush into the first kiss, but you should also not put it off in the long box. After all, if you tighten the process with it, then there is a chance that the girl will think about the frivolity of your intentions. Therefore, the main thing here is to choose the most suitable moment. Moreover, if on the first date everything goes so well that the girl herself wants to kiss you herself, then in no case should she bother and push the lady away, because this can really offend her. But to force her to this is not necessary.
For the first kiss, you need to choose the moment when both partners will be on an emotional lift, so that it is truly memorable.
Before you go directly to the kiss, you must necessarily prepare for it so that everything goes at the highest level. After all, if for many guys the first kiss is not so important, then for most girls it plays a huge role. Therefore, you need to carefully prepare for it, if not for yourself, then for the girl.
If you have never done this in your life, then before the first kiss with the girl you like, you need to practice this business so that you don’t miss a mistake. Having mastered the technique of kissing, you will feel more comfortable when everything is closer to business. You can practice this on your own hand or on some object. In addition, you can ask for help from your girlfriend, whom you trust, to practice with her in this matter. But keep in mind that if you really like the girl for whom you conduct such training, this will become a barrier to kissing with another person. Moreover, the girl can learn about such a practice, which will certainly upset her.
Before the first kiss with a girl you like, you must always monitor the freshness of your breath, because this moment is one of the most important points. After all, no girl wants to kiss a guy who smells badly from his mouth. Especially when it comes to the first kiss, according to which she will add up the impression of a young man.
Therefore, before going on a date, even if you are not going to kiss your chosen one on it, you must always brush your teeth. It would seem that this is such a banal thing that you should not pay attention to at all, but many guys forget about it. In addition, before a date, it is necessary to avoid eating food that for a long time leaves an unpleasant or specific smell in the mouth. We are talking about the same products as garlic, onions, dumplings with vinegar, salted fish and many others. Well, to be completely sure of the freshness of your breath, you need to stock up with chewing gum or peppermint candies.
In many ways, exactly how the first kiss will go will depend on the choice of the most suitable and appropriate moment. So it is necessary to approach this issue especially seriously.
Many guys put off a kiss to the final stage of a date when they spend the girl home. They believe that it is a tradition to kiss a girl at the very end of a date. However, this is completely untrue, because you can kiss a girl at any time. It is enough to choose the most suitable case.
If your date is to go to the cinema, then you can kiss her right there. However, for this you need to buy tickets for the back rows, which are usually called places for a kiss. But keep in mind that some ladies are not ready to kiss in a public place, even on the last row in a movie theater. An ideal option would be an almost empty cinema hall. Such a romantic setting will push the girl to a kiss herself.
If you are sitting together on a bench, and she herself hugs or touches you, then it's time to move on to the kiss. After all, with her touches the girl shows her desire to kiss you. However, she herself cannot take the first step, because a man must do it.
The girl’s eyes can clearly tell about the desire to kiss the guy. If you caught her eye on your lips, then this is a clear sign that it is time to get down to business.
If a girl tries to get close to you, often leans toward you or tries to hug you, this also indicates her desire. This moment needs to be caught and kissed by the girl in time. If you guessed with the moment, then she obviously will not be against this kiss.
If you have fun, laugh and play with the girl on a date, then at this time you can kiss her. In a fit of emotion, she will surely let you do it, so do not miss this moment.
How to kiss a girl for the first time?
Most often, the girls remember the first kiss best. Therefore, it is important that it is really wonderful.
During the first kiss with the girl, you do not need to make any sudden movements. Everything should go quietly. First you need to start gradually moving closer to her face. If she does not take him away, then everything is going well. It is worth noting that to approach the girl's face you need to tilt your head slightly so as not to collide with your noses. Slowing closer to the girl's face will be a great signal for her that you are going to kiss her, so this will not be a surprise for her. And if the girl is not ready for the kiss, then this will give her time to take her head to the side. Well, if you do everything quickly, without giving her time to think, then you run the risk of getting a slap in the face.
During a kiss, almost all people close their eyes. But, in no case should this be done while getting closer to the girl’s face. After all, she will see how you approach her lips with her eyes closed, which can cause her laughter. Indeed, from the outside it will look really funny. So close your eyes only when you started kissing.
Do not immediately go to the girl with the tongue in her mouth. To start, try a kiss with your mouth closed. As soon as your lips touch, you will immediately understand how to proceed. Moreover, after touching, the girl can take the initiative.
During the kiss, you need to pay due attention to the movement of your hands. In no case should they hang at the seams, as they must be involved. With one hand you can hug the girl by the waist, and the other put on the girl's face.
It's no secret that girls pay more attention to the first kiss. If it goes awesome, then the girls automatically transfer the young man to the rank of his official boyfriend. If everything goes terribly, then some ladies put an end to possible relationships.
Even if the first kiss didn’t work out, you can always translate everything as a joke. Thus, it is possible to turn an awkward situation into a funny case, which, if the relationship is established, can be remembered with a laugh in the future.
The guy should take the initiative in his own hands and be the first to kiss the girls. Thus, he will demonstrate his attitude and male leadership, which all women like.
If a girl feels uncomfortable, for example, wants to use the toilet or something hurts her, then at this moment she will not have time for romance and kisses. Also, the girl does not want to kiss even if she is very cold, because her thoughts will be occupied with how to warm up as soon as possible.
In no case should you put pressure on a girl, incline her to a kiss on a first date. Indeed, even if the lady succumbed to pressure, and everything happens, she will obviously experience disappointment, as her kiss occurred under duress. Moreover, if you come across a really modest girl who you bent to kiss on the first date, then she may be offended by this, and there will be no second date. Therefore, if you have serious plans, then do not put pressure on the girl, even if she does not kiss you during the second or third meeting.
No need to ask the girl for permission to kiss her. To the questions “Can I kiss you?” Or “Can I kiss you?” The girl can refuse, even if she really wants to. The fact is that women at any age do not want to make such decisions on their own.
Many guys drop their hands after the girl’s first refusal to kiss. They no longer attempt, because they do not want to seem intrusive. But this need not be afraid. If the girl declined to kiss for the first time, then the next time she would not. Although, of course, if such evasions continue from time to time, then for sure the girl does not want to kiss you and it is better to stop trying.
Another common mistake is a kiss without preparation. Of course, without it, everything can go well. But if you want to be sure of the successful outcome of the first kiss with a girl that you like, then it is better to prepare for it.
The question of how to kiss a girl for the first time should be taken really seriously. However, there is no need to worry, worry and worry about this.
How to kiss a girl for the first time
The first relationship for every young person is always something exciting, touching, beautiful, sweet and fragile. It is because of a lack of experience that a guy can do a lot.
1. Select the appropriate movie. Some films attract ladies to kisses more than others. If a friend sees how the protagonists of the film fight with a mucus-covered alien freak, the romantic center of her brain will be paralyzed. But if she sees how handsome vampires passionately kiss mortal maidens, then her lips themselves will begin to smack with desire.
2. Saddle the right places. There is a conclusion that the last rows of the cinema are more suitable for kisses - this is not entirely true. If your companion is shameless enough, then kissing her is possible anywhere. But the modest woman brought under the canopy of the cinema is shy and is certainly not ready to kiss in the cinema hall. Make sure you don’t have neighbors in the form of, for example, children chewing popcorn. Any half-empty room will do.
3. Be fresh. Become like the gentlemen from advertising, wash your hair shaving, shave, scent, smear and sprinkle with everything possible. Before you do - chew gum.
4. Feel the body slowly. A fierce French kiss without warning is a scary tactic. For starters, it’s better to whisper something in her ear, then try to hold her hand. If the companion is happy with all this, it is possible to strike the final blow - to kiss her with emotion, but without undue pressure.
- No matter how terrible your thirst for her sweet lips is, try not to attack with kisses forever. A few times is enough.
- What to do if a woman does not want to kiss in a movie theater? Apparently, she does not want to kiss with you by and large. Go over the money spent on her ticket and look for another girlfriend, more grateful and passionate.
creator of the article: Sergey Zybin
Do you know that in some cinemas there are special places for lovers? The armrests can be an important obstacle for couples who want to sit closer to each other - on this basis, tickets for two seats go on sale without any obstacles. To the delight of young people in modern cinemas, the armrests are increasingly being retracted.
Best movie kisses
In Brutal Games, a modern adaptation of the adventurous novel Dangerous Liaisons, the insidious Katherine (Sarah Michelle Gellar) teaches the inexperienced silly Cecile (Selma Blair) to kiss.
Actresses received the MTV Award for Best Kiss in the Movie (2000). But, of course, such girlish kisses are not for everybody.
We will try to recall the other best kisses in the cinema - romantic and violent, funny and touching. So here we go!
The most romantic
All Romeo and all Juliet from the adaptations of the tragedy of the great Briton kissed. But what about! But we will remember only one kiss - the best kiss in the movie "Romeo + Juliet."
They say that Claire Danes was not happy with her site partner.Here is the flour - to kiss someone who is disgusting to you! And that very partner was Leonardo DiCaprio.
Well, such work - necessary, then necessary! And that kiss at the ball was charming.
Another kiss with the participation of public idol DiCaprio was on the bow of the ship. Yes, even a ship! Entered into history, however, on a very sad occasion. But for now, the Titanic cheerfully cuts the waves, and the heroes - Rosa and Jack - have time to merge in one of the most romantic kisses on the screen.
Many trials fell on the lot of the rich Ella Hamilton and her beloved Noah in the "Diary of memory." But so far the most “quoted” frame from this picture is their passionate kiss in the pouring rain. Mmm! Already goosebumps!
The most anticipated
And the other lovers had more abrupt barriers - as much as a hundred years! To get into the Victorian era, to the handsome aristocrat Leopold, lively Kate was not afraid to step into the void from the bridge (it was there a portal). But how surprised Leo was when he saw a beautiful lady from the future in his living room! The final kiss from the melodrama "Kate and Leo" must also be on our list!
Which of us did not push the timid Amelie: “Well, open the door for him!” When Nino languished under her door. The first time we didn’t make up our minds, and we froze ... Can’t they do anything? But then the door opened, and the title character of the French tape “Amelie” was in the arms of her lover. He did not waste time in vain - he kissed her immediately, but how hard!
Audrey Hepburn was a great smart girl, a talented actress and a pro-poor activist. She died of a serious illness, but we remember her young and beautiful. For example, as in Tiffany's Breakfast. The kiss of the characters in this picture - charming Holly and Paul - is also very inspiring, and also, by the way, happens in the rain. And look how the poor cat, who witnessed this scene, squinted!
The most passionate
There are several films with the title "Obsession", we mean the tape of the year 2004. In it, the hero loses his beloved for a reason incomprehensible to him (she simply disappears from his life), and then finds it. Matthew and Lisa's kiss is so passionate and scorching! Maybe because they are played by athlete Josh Hartnett and fragile Diane Kruger?
So in "Mr. and Mrs. Smith," the title characters sparkle with passion. It is with this film that the love stories of Angelina and Brad begin. Because of this "chemistry" that arose on the site, the audience so clearly senses the fire spilling over the bodies of John and Jane, and now their lips merge together ...
The most ... forbidden
There is something forbidden in the kiss of adult seducer Johnny (Swayze) and his young ward Baby (Gray) in the film "Dirty Dancing". Thanks to the sensual pa that the bored "youngster" (she is only 17) teaches the hero of Patrick, these two are immersed in the abyss of such passions! After all, a dance is akin to sex - in it, too, there is a unity and fusion of two souls and bodies into one.
Another kiss through “not allowed” is the one with which Edward Cullen first awards Bella, longing for his love. He knows: if he succumbs to instincts, and the vampire essence will prevail over the human. But still he kisses his beloved.
The Twilight franchise has a lot of kisses, but this one is the first - the most memorable. Interestingly, it was this scene that was played at a casting in the house of the director Hardwick Robert Pattinson.
I wonder if he then suspected that Kristen (who was already approved and just helped in the samples) would break his heart?
After this kiss, another one immediately comes to mind - when the most famous vampire also kissed a mortal girl (the magnificent Count Dracula in the drama of the same name - the beautiful Mina). Oldman and Ryder were so amazing in this scene! By the way, this kiss was nominated for the title of the best kiss in the movie, but the award was given not to these actors.
But Lauren Holly and the very amusing in the role of Lloyd Jim Carrey received this award - in 1995. A kiss of a foolish and pretty woman with whom he has so rashly fallen in love cannot be considered romantic! He's rather funny!
Another touching kiss we can see in the Disney masterpiece “Lady and the Tramp” published in 1955. Kind cook invited two dogs - the aristocratic Lady and the "yard" Tramp - for a romantic dinner.
An Italian melody sounds, a couple peacefully eats spaghetti with meatballs.
When they accidentally grab one long spaghetti and eat it on both sides, their mouths are touching ... That's for sure - the most innocent kiss on the screen!
The kiss with which the heroine Monroe, the soloist of the ladies' orchestra Dushechka, wanted to “unfreeze” the hero Tony Curtis also causes a smile.
After all, he (the hero of the immortal comedy “There are only girls in jazz”), an unemployed musician and adventurer, pretended to be a millionaire who, supposedly, does not know what love is.
The treacherous Joe just wanted to achieve such a sweet intimacy with a blonde, well, and she seduced like a fool!
The most extreme
The extreme kiss of Peter Parker (in the image of Spider-Man, of course) and his girlfriend Mary Jane is also one of the best kisses in the movies.
Not only because it was dizzying (for the audience), but also terribly inconvenient for Maguire.
Hang upside down when streams of rain pour into your nose, and you literally choke on them, and look romantic at the same time? Dismiss this romance!
One of the most famous shrews of all time is Scarlett O’Hara from the film adaptation of the wonderful book Gone with the Wind. She never wanted to see anyone near her - except adored Ashley. And he was busy with another.
And when Rhett Butler hugs the proud woman and kisses her - almost violently - she first fights off and then limp limply in the hands of an experienced don Juan.
In all ratings of the best kisses in the cinema this one takes the top lines!
And the most farewell
And how can you forget Sam's farewell kiss (he is about to soar into heaven and go to heaven) and Molly! It’s great that the creators of the film “Ghost” do not show how Demi Moore is kissing and Whoopi Goldberg is very eccentric in this picture: Sam, who has popped into the psychic's body, becomes visible, even translucent, in a kiss. And here already get handkerchiefs - we will sob!
How to kiss a girl for the first time?
Self Improvement April 5, 2013
The first kiss is always exciting. After it, you understand a lot about yourself, your partner, and even about how your relationship will develop, whether it comes to sex or weddings. For some reason, they worry more about the first kisses of a man. This is understandable, as it is sometimes difficult to understand whether that “right moment” has arrived.
If you are a romantic person and want to see yourself from the outside or get some practical advice on when and how to kiss a girl, then we recommend watching the movie “I Want to Marry Ryan Banks” - 2004 comedy release.
Of course, you should not be so afraid of the first kiss and other interesting moments in a relationship with a woman, because if she spends time with you, then she herself, most likely, has long wanted to go to another level. Perhaps she will even take a step towards herself and kiss you first.
If this has not happened yet, then it's time to take the initiative in your own hands.
How to kiss a girl so that her knees bend, her heart sank, she wanted to repeat it again and again? And when is it better to do it? You will learn all about the female body language and gestures, when it is appropriate to kiss a girl according to the women themselves, how to stop being nervous and learn how to create the most successful romantic moments.
I'm afraid to kiss a girl
Calm, we tell you, only calm! First of all, you need to stop being nervous, learn to control yourself next to her. Do not fall into a daze at the right time for a kiss, otherwise it will never come.
Anyway, who knows when exactly this moment will come and is it worth the wait? Sometimes a girl manages to kiss in the first minutes of an acquaintance, and this turns out to be the best option for starting a dizzying relationship.
So do not be afraid, just do not eat a sandwich with onions before a date, and then it will definitely be difficult to spoil it.
Do not treat the first kiss as a selection for astronauts.
Stop worrying about the little kiss and remember once again that the girl will not waste her time on someone she does not want to kiss, and perhaps she has done this many times in her imagination.
Even if everything goes wrong as you imagined, the girl you are interested in will not get away from you, and if she runs away after the first kiss, then it was not your girlfriend. Remember, a woman is like a boomerang, if she likes you, she will definitely come back.
No need to rush
There is no charter for kisses that strictly regulates the time when you should kiss or have sex for the first time, but do not rush into either one or the other.
Some guys think that the lack of a kiss on your first date is a sign that you are a loser and that the girl will no longer want to see you. Because of such thoughts, many people are in a hurry to break a kiss at any cost on the first day in order to feel like a winner.
But, believe me, it is better to give the girl time to dream about how it will be for the first time. Enough kiss on the cheek goodbye to rekindle her imagination.
How to kiss a girl? Read her gestures
Remember, if she does not move away from you when you are too close, gazes intently into your eyes, then a tremulous, exciting kiss will be waiting for you very soon, and you will definitely understand when! This can be called an attraction: when she often bows her head to you, looks at you with a smile, touches her hair and neck.
When a girl is waiting for your kiss, her movements slow down, become smooth and all this in order to provide you with the opportunity to catch her lips. Often they finish a date with a kiss and it’s very “cruel”, because you both have a sleepless night in dreams, but for this purpose a prelude has been created to stir up passion.
Kiss like a movie
No need to neglect the romantic plots from the movies, it’s better to take note of them. It is no coincidence that a specific film was mentioned at the very beginning, because in fact the girls lack such bright moments in life, and it remains only to look from the side at someone's, albeit cinematic, life.
If the guys understand that before kissing the girl, you need to create a suitable atmosphere for this, things will quickly go smoothly. Dinner by the sea or admiring the sunset is perfect for this, and look for details in the movies.
The film industry was created not only for entertainment, but also to show how your life could have been if you dared.
Probably the greatest happiness is when everything happens at the right time and in the right place. We hope that with our advice your fear of kissing a girl will be successfully eliminated by the very first kiss, and you will have to write a new article for you entitled: “My girlfriend loves my kisses so much that I need to distract her for a short time to rest.”
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